Ask C.C.

Ask C.C.

Posted by on Jul 28, 2015

One of the great things about being an erotic memoirist is that people tell me their sexy stories. I love this. I think you have all determined that if I’m open enough to write about my sexuality, that I won’t judge you about yours, which is true. I hear stories about polyamorous relationships, stints as an erotic dancer, the bisexual phase in college.   I have always felt so honored that you all trust me and are so willing to confide. I also get asked a lot of questions about love, sex, dating, orgasms, seduction, sexy marriage, role playing…I could make a long list. It...

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Rock The Crown

Posted by on Jan 31, 2013

I had a request from a friend who started reading this blog: Dear C.C., Could you blog about how to feel sexy as you get older? I’m 48 now and having a harder time feeling sexy lately with the changes in my hair, skin and body. On top of all that, my job keeps me in front of a computer all day and I have less of an adventure lifestyle. Help! I sent her the link to the Sexy Mentor blog post but I know she needed more than that. Last year my friend Jenna (she’s a goddess check her out here) gave me this gem of a metaphor that helped me reframe my thoughts about sexiness and aging: In our...

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